If a shy and conservative girl gives you her number on asking, does it mean she is interested in you?

If you made it clear that you are interested in her when you asked for the number, any girl who gives you her number is interested. She may not be ready to marry you, but she has enough interest to want to learn more about you. If instead you prevaricated saying you'd like to study or you need her advice, then she may have taken you seriously and all bets are off.

Don't Go Overboard Yet
If she gave you her number it means she likes you some, it does not mean she wants to marry you or even that she wants to date you. She will figure out later how much she likes you. So contain yourself; you made a good first step but your job has only begun.

Following Up
You now have approval to call her and ask for an introductory date (don't call it that, just call it a date). An introductory date is a 30-60 minutes meeting in a public place, like a cafe, an ice cream parlor or a park. On the date you won't spend much money on her, and you don't expect any more intimacy than at most a hug when the date ends. You will ask questions about her and listen attentively. And she will ask questions about you which you will answer honestly, while showing some sense of humor, if you can.

After the introductory date is over, the girl will reflect on whether she likes you more or less than she did before. You will call her and ask if she enjoyed the date and if she'd like to do it again.

If she likes you less after the first date, she'll either tell you she prefers not to have another date (if she is assertive and knows what she wants) or she'll  show reluctance to meet you again, if she is young, shy or not assertive.  Reluctance may be expressed in many ways:

• not answering calls
• returning calls slowly
• returning calls by text message
• Having a very busy schedule
• Can't meet on the day you suggest (and won't offer another day)
• reluctant tone of voice

 If she is anything less than delighted and excited to hear from you after the first date, tell her thank you for the date and wish her well. Then don't call again. Strangely, although she has decided against you, it is you who gets to stop the relationship by no longer pursuing her.

If she does show strong interest in you after date 1, then arrange a longer more private date 2, like a meal in a restaurant. You can spend some money now (but don't overspend. She does not want to know how much money you have yet). At the end of date 2, you can show your interest in a way that is appropriate in your culture. In the West, that is with a kiss (or kisses) at the conclusion of the date. In the East, you may take it slower.

Very important
If she has decided against you at any point--do not get angry with her. It is not an insult. She did not lead you on. She has not humiliated you. She simply decided you and she are not a strong enough personality match--and she is probably right. So be gracious to her, do not call her again and look for another girl to ask out instead.
https://www.quora.com/If-a-shy-and-conservative-girl-gives-you-her-number-on-asking-does-it-mean-she-is-interested-in-you

Why one needs to show his chart to an expert or good astrologer?

There are many contradictory views existing in Vedic astrology. Contradictions exist in modern literature as well as classics on astrology. To sort out those contradictions an experts view is needed. The reason is that the expert has worked on many real charts & applied the theory in practical life too.

Let us take an example. How important is Sakata yoga? It is given in classics , but should it be blindly applied on charts or not?

Sakata yoga: If Moon is in 6th, 8th or 12th house from jupiter, then this yoga is formed. If Moon is in a Kendra then such a yoga is cancelled.

Result: Unhappy, unfortunate. Sometimes his luck dawns but other times it fades away.

Now this is the view of Phaldeepika & some other classics on SAKATA yoga. But I in fact don't use this yoga. I think that this yoga is not valid. If Moon is in 12th house from Jupiter , then Jupiter would be 2nd house from from Moon. This would make another yoga "Sunapha yoga" that would make someone a king, famous & rich. So Sakata yoga is directly in contradiction with Sunapha yoga.
Moreover Jupiter as a reference point in this yoga seems to be weird, as Chandra could be a better reference point.  

Hence I think that this form of Sakata yoga is an invalid yoga.

There is an alternate form of Sakata yoga given in Saravali. That yoga definitely seems to be true , but not this one.

Quantum Theory Demonstrated: Observation Affects Reality

REHOVOT, Israel, February 26, 1998--One of the most bizarre premises of quantum theory, which has long fascinated philosophers and physicists alike, states that by the very act of watching, the observer affects the observed reality.

In a study reported in the February 26 issue of Nature (Vol. 391, pp. 871-874), researchers at the Weizmann Institute of Science have now conducted a highly controlled experiment demonstrating how a beam of electrons is affected by the act of being observed. The experiment revealed that the greater the amount of "watching," the greater the observer's influence on what actually takes place.
The research team headed by Prof. Mordehai Heiblum, included Ph.D. student Eyal Buks, Dr. Ralph Schuster, Dr. Diana Mahalu and Dr. Vladimir Umansky. The scientists, members of the Condensed Matter Physics Department, work at the Institute's Joseph H. and Belle R. Braun Center for Submicron Research.
When a quantum "observer" is watching Quantum mechanics states that particles can also behave as waves. This can be true for electrons at the submicron level, i.e., at distances measuring less than one micron, or one thousandth of a millimeter. When behaving as waves, they can simultaneously pass through several openings in a barrier and then meet again at the other side of the barrier. This "meeting" is known as interference.
Strange as it may sound, interference can only occur when no one is watching. Once an observer begins to watch the particles going through the openings, the picture changes dramatically: if a particle can be seen going through one opening, then it's clear it didn't go through another. In other words, when under observation, electrons are being "forced" to behave like particles and not like waves. Thus the mere act of observation affects the experimental findings.
To demonstrate this, Weizmann Institute researchers built a tiny device measuring less than one micron in size, which had a barrier with two openings. They then sent a current of electrons towards the barrier. The "observer" in this experiment wasn't human. Institute scientists used for this purpose a tiny but sophisticated electronic detector that can spot passing electrons. The quantum "observer's" capacity to detect electrons could be altered by changing its electrical conductivity, or the strength of the current passing through it.
Apart from "observing," or detecting, the electrons, the detector had no effect on the current. Yet the scientists found that the very presence of the detector-"observer" near one of the openings caused changes in the interference pattern of the electron waves passing through the openings of the barrier. In fact, this effect was dependent on the "amount" of the observation: when the "observer's" capacity to detect electrons increased, in other words, when the level of the observation went up, the interference weakened; in contrast, when its capacity to detect electrons was reduced, in other words, when the observation slackened, the interference increased.
Thus, by controlling the properties of the quantum observer the scientists managed to control the extent of its influence on the electrons' behavior. The theoretical basis for this phenomenon was developed several years ago by a number of physicists, including Dr. Adi Stern and Prof. Yoseph Imry of the Weizmann Institute of Science, together with Prof. Yakir Aharonov of Tel Aviv University. The new experimental work was initiated following discussions with Weizmann Institute's Prof. Shmuel Gurvitz, and its results have already attracted the interest of theoretical physicists around the world and are being studied, among others, by Prof. Yehoshua Levinson of the Weizmann Institute.
Tomorrow's Technology
The experiment's finding that observation tends to kill interference may be used in tomorrow's technology to ensure the secrecy of information transfer. This can be accomplished if information is encoded in such a way that the interference of multiple electron paths is needed to decipher it. "The presence of an eavesdropper, who is an observer, although an unwanted one, would kill the interference," says Prof. Heiblum. "This would let the recipient know that the message has been intercepted."
On a broader scale, the Weizmann Institute experiment is an important contribution to the scientific community's efforts aimed at developing quantum electronic machines, which may become a reality in the next century. This radically new type of electronic equipment may exploit both the particle and wave nature of electrons at the same time and a greater understanding of the interplay between these two characteristics are needed for the development of this equipment. Such future technology may, for example, open the way to the development of new computers whose capacity will vastly exceed that of today's most advanced machines.
This research was funded in part by the Minerva Foundation, Munich, Germany. Prof. Imry holds the Max Planck Chair of Quantum Physics and heads the Albert Einstein Minerva Center for Theoretical Physics.
The Weizmann Institute of Science, in Rehovot, Israel, is one of the world's foremost centers of scientific research and graduate study. Its 2,400 scientists, students, technicians, and engineers pursue basic research in the quest for knowledge and the enhancement of the human condition. New ways of fighting disease and hunger, protecting the environment, and harnessing alternative sources of energy are high priorities.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/1998/02/980227055013.htm

Random Nonsense of someone who knew too little

http://www.science20.com/mind_experiments_of_a_psychonaught/blog/random_nonsense_of_someone_who_knew_too_little-46147

Terrible science from a time when I knew very little in the domains of both science and writing. I've considered deleting this post but feel that would be a disservice to my prior self.

If quantum mechanics is correct than everything in the universe would have a subtle affect on our life due to its gravitational force. This force alter on what plankian size of time-space we are existing in. By moving this place the quarks are in the brain cells you completely change there likelihood of making random quantum fluctuations(like my brain cell deciding to randomly jump to pluto and chill).

    Any minute change in position of my developing brain cells would have another chance to have a different space in time-sapce at one time. Thus if there was one more star in the universe just by adding one star I would have developed into a different person with the quantum possibility.

    The shear magnitude of the number of them would give me more and more chances, almost infinite* (i say infinite because it would make it more beautiful mathematically), for them to warp somewhere else. This could possibly explain how some cells just randomly die. Maybe one of its quarks just decided it didn't like it anymore and decide to go to star 35789810. This would probably cause the cell stress but would not kill it. Slowly as more and more quarks do this the more the cell gets damaged forcing it to die.

    Different positions of the stars force your cells to either grow do completeness or die off. This would make each individual person develop their own personality according to the different gravitational forces they experience. Thus patterns would begin to emerge in people with similar gravitational forces. And the bigger the gravitational force (ie the things closest to us the sun, the planets, comets) the bigger the consistencies.

Conclusion: astrology is supported by quantum mechanics

*100 billion brain cells X 10^14 (number of atoms in cell) X number of quarks in atom

Gemini & Cancer Asc/Moon sign/Sunsign

Gemini - The Twins (May 21nd to June 20nd)
The planetary ruler of Gemini is Mercury, which is a swift planet. Mercury is the messenger of Gods. This makes you quick & communicative. It gives you intelligence, wit, diplomacy & tact. It also gives you joy, enthusiasm & cheerfulness. It makes you versatile too. You are definitely a pleasant company for others.  You have got a gift of gab.

Typical Gemini people love to share ideas with someone else. The most important thing for a Gemini is communication. Gemini people are almost always curious about lots of different things. A typical Gemini person usually enjoys being with other people, and loves to talk about the latest thing he is doing. People usually like their Gemini friends, because they have something interesting to share with everybody.

Gemini belongs to a group of signs which astrologers call air signs. By this they mean that Gemini people have a sparkling, changeable, light quality which makes them think of the light and refreshing breeze of a spring day. Libra and Aquarius are also air signs.

Geminis are shrewd. Jewish Kabala calls you " The head: twin sword blades; The heart: a barren rock". Yes, you can be selfish & cruel. But it is also a human sign capable of affection, loyalty & self-sacrifice. So it depends on the particular Gemini according to me.  

If you are a Gemini think about how good you feel when you are right in the middle of exciting things and can tell your friends your own story of what happened. You can brighten up a whole room full of people, and teach them something new at the same time.

Physical features: According to Phaldeepika, people having Gemini Asc/moon have black eyes, curly hairs & thick neck. Their nose are elevated.

Career: Writer, teacher, public relation officer, publicity chief, advertising, salesman, journalist, dancer, artist, actor, scientist, psychiatrist, psychologist, robber, swindler, interviewer, mechanic (if they can concentrate) , craftsman (if they can concentrate) 

Many Gemini people are talented at writing, teaching and public speaking. Some are gifted dancers. Many of them work in the fields of radio, television and newspapers because they love to be around when news is being created. So they make good journalists.  It is especially important for Gemini people to travel and meet new people.

Romance & Marriage: Geminis are flirts. They make a good first impression & able to influence women due to their communication skills & cheerfulness. They can have multiple affairs & hence they can break hearts of women in the process.  

The monotony of marriage could wear you out. You could lose interest. But again individual chart is to be consulted for knowing about married life. I think if individual chart's 7th house, 7th lord & Venus are strong, then it might result in stable marriages. 
The best spouse for them could be airy or (next) fiery signs. But again ashtakoot matching & manglik considerations are the final words. 

Cancer - The Crab (June 21rd to July 22nd)
The crab carries its own house with it. It will also move sideways instead of in a straight line, and although a crab cannot really hurt you with its claws, it can hang on very tightly to something it wants. A typical Cancer person is home-loving and fond of his family. At the same time he is often quite subtle in his behaviour and may approach people and situations indirectly if he cannot get what he wants by going straight forward. And when he loves someone or has something which makes him happy, he will hang on very tightly and not let go. According to Phaldeepika a cancer asc/moonsign person possesses many houses. He has got good memory. 

Cancer is the 4th sign & hence it is related to home. It is attached to home but they seek limelight of publicity. They are home lovers but they usually go through hell in their relationships with relatives, friends, parents and children. And since they are over-sensitive, the effects are far reaching & disastrous. It might be their fault too as their emotions take a dangerous turn. Their over-possessive behaviour may create problems to near & dear ones & to themselves too. 

Cancer people want to be needed, and it is important to them to be around people who love them and help them to feel secure. They are also often shy and sensitive & sentimental but they can be brave and courageous about protecting their friends and loved ones. Many Cancer people also have wonderful imaginations, and can create fine stories and paintings.

Cancer belongs to a group of signs which astrologers call water signs. By this they mean that Cancer people have a deep, mysterious, gentle quality which makes them think of gazing into a cool, deep pool or into the flowing waters of a river. Scorpio and Pisces are also water signs.

On negative side, the cancer is moody, pessimistic, easily hurt, unforgiving, nagger & suspicious. It possesses inferiority complex. I think that this sign possesses may have psychological problems. 

If you are a Cancer think about how good you feel when you are close to your family and feel safe and secure in a warm, happy home.

Physical features: According to Phaldeepika Cancer Asc/moonsign has a thick neck & a thick waist. He is short in height.

Career: Actor, hotelier, caterer, astrologer, teacher, professor, salesman, banker, sailor, chef, nurse, surgeon, doctor, hypnotist, businessman, interior decorator, fashion designer, photographer

Romance & Marriage: You tend to settle down after marriage. You are highly sexed. Sex drive may be high or low according to your mood. As a lover you are caring, protective & possessive. But let not your mood ruin your marriage. Let not your mother ruin your marriage. You tend to compare your spouse with parents. That is another area of trouble.  

This analysis holds good for sidereal Asc/Moon signs/Sunsigns & tropical sun signs too.
Refer to the whole chart for complete analysis.

How to Use the Law of Attraction

The law of attraction states that every positive or negative event that happened with you was attracted by you. Say that a special friend loaned you money when you didn't have any. You attracted that, even without your awareness of using the law. Say that teacher, classmate, client, or co-worker gave you a hard time during the day. You attracted that, too. Again, we are using the law every second of every day. You've even attracted reading this article! There are really only three basic steps: ask, believe, and receive. However, the point of this article is to break those three steps down into actions that you can do.

Relax your mind.Be sure about what you want and when you do decide don't doubt yourself.
Ask the Universe for it. Write your wish down. Feel it
Show gratitudeTrust the Universe
http://www.wikihow.com/Use-the-Law-of-Attraction

Aries & Taurus Asc./Moon sign/Sunsign

Aries - The Ram( March 21th to April 19th )

The ram is always full of energy and life, always on the move, and always looking for a challenge. A typical Aries person is usually full of vitality and courage. He enjoys challenge, and can often be found excelling at sports and other competitive games. He will try anything if there is a chance to win. Many people who have the Asc/Moon/Sun in Aries, or perhaps some of the other planets in Aries, are natural leaders. They have plenty of new, creative ideas. They may get impatient when they must follow a routine, or do what they think are boring things. The Aries person does not like being told what to do. He likes to make his own way in life.

Aries belongs to a group of Zodiac signs which astrologers call fire signs. By this they mean that people born under these signs remind them of a warm, bright, crackling fire. They have a fiery, impulsive quality. They tend to be outgoing and sometimes have hot tempers, but they forgive easily as well. They are optimistic and rarely remain sad for long. Leo and Sagittarius are also fire signs.

Aries being a cardinal sign, tends to dominate people & I have seen that it likes flattery. He tends to form a team of its own, most of them are its "Chamachas". He likes to have an organisation & business of its own where he handles handles his people in his own dictatorial way. If he is in a job, he might be at a powerful post or a post requiring leadership abilities. Many a times he shows a tendency of nepotism, by keeping his near & dear ones in his organisation. Hilter had many of his planets in Aries & he was a famous & a cruel dictator. Perhaps excess of Aries (Mars) influence did that.   

If you are an Aries think how good you feel when you are first at something, and when you can invent new ideas or activities which your friends enjoy.

Romance & marriage: You may temporarily sweep your sweetheart off the feet. Your personality is dominating, charming & vibrant. But if your partner is of watery sign or incompatible, then the charm & spell rubs off soon. Without sex & loveplay, romance has no meaning to you. You believe in meeting of bodies rather than souls. Sex & violence drive the arian character. In general, you gel well best with fire signs due to your fiery nature & also the air signs. With libra it may be a temporary fling.   

career: Mars is related to metal (or iron) & fire. Engineering, mechanical engineering, mechanical work, surgery, art work on metals, arms, war materials, pioneer, astrologer, soldier, pilot, army man, sportsman, animal trainer, hunter, sales promotion, manufacturing, motor mechanics, research, psychatrist, psychologist 

For career better refer to 10th house & 10th lord. Also planets in conjunction with 10th lord & aspecting 10th house may be seen. Refer both Lagna Chart & Moon Chart for the nature of career. 10th house of D9 chart can also indicate how much one may rise in career. D10's 10th house is also believed to indicate the type of career. But ultimately Lagna Chart & Moon Chart are the best & reliable.  

Taurus - The Bull (April 20st to May 20st)

The ruling planet Venus gives him both materialistic & artistic tendencies. He is fond of sex , food, comfort & arts. It is a sign of worldly success & prosperity. Hence he provides sex, security & material comforts to his partner. Taureans are real gourmets & excellent host/hostesses. They lay a good table, wallop food & expect their friends to compete with them. They have good digestion systems provided, their 5th house in Lagna  Chart indicates the same.

The bull is plodding and peaceful in his movements. He is deliberate and relaxed and enjoys his food. A typical Taurus person likes comfort, and is willing to work hard for the things that make him happy. Like a bull, he does not easily lose his temper, but when he does get angry it is best to stay out of his way! He would get angry & may even hit a person, who has done wrong to him or his near & dear ones. He is very strong & hence wicked people should stay out of way. 

The most important thing to Taurus is stability. Many Taurus people love beautiful things. They may also love the land, and be happiest in the country. Some Taurus people have fine voices and a talent for music, or they may be good at sculpture or woodwork. Others are practical and can be excellent accountants or bookkeepers. But sometimes Taurus people take a long time to decide what they are best at, because this is a patient sign and Taurus people are in no hurry. The Taurean is a slow thinker, although this property depends ultimately on his individual horoscope. Once he has formed an opinion he sticks to it.  


Taurus belongs to a group of signs which astrologers call earth signs. By this they mean that Taurus people have a solid, reliable quality which reminds them of the earth itself. Virgo and Capricorn are also earth signs. If you are a Taurus your special gifts are your reliability, and your ability to bring peace and stability into other people's lives.

Romance & marriage: In love & romance, he is sentimental. He can flirt & likes conquests & affairs. Sex means much to him/her. But a Taurean settles down after a short sudden, spasmodic, fling. A Taurean's mate should have a robust sense of humour & a good sex-appetite. She would love her if she has womanly wiles & she is good in bed. He wants his marraige to be peaceful & solid. He hates divorce.

Career: Builder, banking jobs, painter, engineer, chemist, singer, actor, farmer, gardener, fashion designing, hoteliering, catering, travel agency, economics, accounting, stockbroking, luxury trades & industries, beautician.

For career better refer to 10th house & 10th lord. Also planets in conjunction with 10th lord & aspecting 10th house may be seen. Refer both Lagna Chart & Moon Chart for the nature of career. 10th house of D9 chart can also indicate how much one may rise in career. D10's 10th house is also believed to indicate the type of career. But ultimately Lagna Chart & Moon Chart are the best & reliable.